Permission to play.

Arya makes it radically easy for couples to discover their desires, overcome routine and turn exploration into a way of life.

Meet your intimacy coach

Become a more sensual partner.
And a better partner overall.

Curated night of play

Indulge in new intimate experiences and sexologist-crafted activities every month.

State of Intimacy Report

What do people crave in their relationships? Take a look at what 6,000 people are saying.

Exclusive access to

Concierge

Stop guessing what gets your partner in the mood and let your Concierge figure it out for you.

Scenes

Curated intimate experiences and sexologist-crafted activities.

GOODIES

Everything you'd need, delivered discreetly to your door every month.

Oh, the anticipation

What you get with Arya

Get access to sexologist-curated activities
Learn how to share desires with your partner
Open new worlds of intimate conversations
Make the space for your sexual self to thrive
Discover new & exciting sexual experiences
Experiment with new techniques
Get guidance from a real intimacy mentor
Be inspired by our erotic fantasies

Concierge

The Arya Intimacy Mentor is your personal, confidential companion. They'll guide you on your Journey by simplifying the way you and your partner explore sex, desires, and intimate connections.

start exploring

Scenes

Every month you'll receive a new Scene guiding you on an erotic adventure, from sensation play to edging and everything in between.

playing with fire

Discover the sensuality and eroticism of hot and cold.

Collection:
Art of Touch
Skills:
Sensory Play,
Sexual Communication, Temperature Play, Massage

Sense & Sensuality

Extend foreplay and experiment with new sensations to enhance your sexual satisfaction.

Collection:
The Art of Touch
Skills:
Extended Foreplay; Pleasure Mapping; Sensation Play

PLAYFUL DISCOVERIES

Connect with your partner by leaning into each other's sexual communication styles.

Collection:
Erotic Expression
Skills:
Intimate Dialog;
Erotic Exploration; Discovering Desires

DELAY & OBEY

Explore each other's pleasure zones and discover playful ways to keep your intimate moments exciting.

Collection:
Own Your Pleasure
Skills:
Sexual Adventure; Sensual Discovery; Pleasure Zones

caught by surprise

Pleasure yourself... with a surprising and oh-so-erotic twist

Collection:
Art of Touch
Skills:
Mutual Masturbation, Playfulness,
Orgasm Control,
Erotic Communication

Sense & Sensuality

Extend foreplay and experiment with new sensations to enhance your sexual satisfaction.

Collection:
The Art of Touch
Skills:
Extended Foreplay; Pleasure Mapping; Sensation Play

playing with fire

Discover the sensuality and eroticism of hot and cold.

Collection:
Art of Touch
Skills:
Sensory Play, Sexual Communication, Temperature Play, Massage

PLAYFUL DISCOVERIES

Connect with your partner by leaning into each other's sexual communication styles.

Collection:
Erotic Expression
Skills:
Intimate Dialog; Erotic Exploration; Discovering Desires

delay & obey

Explore each other's pleasure zones and discover playful ways to keep your intimate moments exciting.

Collection:
Own Your Pleasure
Skills:
Sexual Adventure; Sensual Discovery; Pleasure Zones

caught by surprise

Pleasure yourself... with a surprising and oh-so-erotic twist

Collection:
Art of Touch
Skills:
Mutual Masturbation, Playfulness, Orgasm Control, Erotic Communication

Objects of  Desire

The final step of each Scene is your IRL evening. Receive your curated Arya box and let the pleasure begin.

Maude Personal Vibrator

$49.99

Included in subscription

PINWHEEL

$43.99

Included in subscription

Cake Stroker Sleeve

$24.99

Included in subscription

LEATHER FLOGGER

$30.99

Included in subscription

FINGER VIBRATOR

$30.99

Included in subscription

Maude Personal Vibrator

$49.99

Included in subscription

PINWHEEL

$43.99

Included in subscription

Cake Stroker Sleeve

$24.99

Included in subscription

lEATHER FLOGGER

$30.99

Included in subscription

FINGER VIBRATOR

$30.99

Included in subscription

Love from our +150k members

"My husband's reaction when our first Scene started… ‘babe, where did THIS come from?... OMG!"
Rebecca, age 38
"Watching someone I have so much love and respect for, try something outside of her comfort zone was such a turn-on!"
Mike, age 41
"We are really enjoying how Arya is aiding and spicing up our sex life!"
Lauren, age 35
"Arya has helped establish a healthy and fun way to communicate with my partner about what we each prefer. I think we both feel heard and more comfortable exploring new options."
Dylan, age 33
“Arya is our little secret to keeping our sex life exciting and intimate. We’re so grateful to be part of the exclusive community.”
Veronica, age 29
"I think my husband was surprised at how much he liked being the focus of this scene. We both like it when he takes the lead, which he does most of the time, but this was lovely for us both."
Emily, age 37
“I love this program. This year me and my partner set a goal to have more sex and Arya is definitely helping make it way more fun!”
Aisha, age 42
“I think more so than the actual toys, it was just our increased intimacy, our ability to trust each other and kind of that spirit of playfulness together.”
Carlos, age 39
"Our Sense and Sensuality play was off the charts. We loved the texts, stories, anticipation, and build up. We have played before with blindfolds, vibrators, and other toys, but Arya brought it all together nicely and focusing on the senses and not just sex was perfect."
Michael, age 35
"Love how the Scene allowed us to both safely open up to trying new things without pressure or expectations or awkwardness."
Rachel, age 43

Let’s get deep

At Arya, we recognize the profound role intimacy holds within a couple's shared journey. Our aim is to gently pave the way for more effortless conversations surrounding it.

First

Take a fun (very private) quiz so we can get to know you as a couple.

Next

Receive weekly explorations from your dedicated intimacy mentor.

Then

A monthly fantasy package is discreetly delivered to your doorstep.

Our Blog: Behind The Scenes

BTS is the place to find answers to your most vulnerable and intimate questions, and to discover new ways to deepen intimacy through erotic exploration with your partner. Close the door, dim the lights, and come inside.

Meet our advisors

Dr. Sara Nasserzdeh

Social Psychologist and Thought Leader

Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a social psychologist and UN Advisor, specializes in psychosexual therapy and relationship dynamics, and is the founder of Relationship Panoramic.

Meet our advisors

Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz

Author and Sociologist

Prof. Pepper Schwartz is a renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington, and a frequent media expert on relationships, notably on "Married at First Sight."

Meet our advisors

Dr. Yael Doron

Relationship and Rehabilitation Psychologist

Dr. Yael Doron is a psychologist and founder of Zugot Institute, known for her expertise in relationship therapy and her role on Israel's "Married at First Sight".

Meet our team of experts

Nicholas Velotta

Head of Relationship Research

Nicholas Velotta, a doctoral student at UW, specializes in research on sexuality, relationships, and gender, with a focus on non-binary gender studies and couple dynamics.

Meet our team of experts

Niki Davis-Fainbloom

Sexologist

Niki Davis-Fainbloom, a NYC-based sexuality and relationship expert, combines scientific research and practical guidance to improve romantic and sexual relationships.

Meet our team of experts

Athena Gayle

Sex Copywriter

Athena Gayle is a sextech copywriter specializing in sexual wellness and adult brands, with a passion for kink community and promoting positive sex lives.

Meet our team of experts

Karolina Wilde

Erotica Author and Writer

Karolina Wilde is a journalist, fantasy romance author of "House of Pain," and sex-positive freelance writer, balancing her writing with a love for chocolate and World of Warcraft.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this just a subscription box?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is Arya only for Couples?

Each Arya Scene is designed for a couple to participate. Introducing your partner to Arya will deepen your experience and add value to your intimate lives.

We want to experience more kink, is this box too vanilla for us?

Of course not! We create Scenes to cater to various interests and desires. Based on user feedback, even the most seasoned 'Kinksters' have enjoyed the boost in erotic communication and intimate inspiration.

I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy, can you help with that?

This is why Arya exists! We're completely confidential, judgement-free, and here to guide you through any conversations about sex, desires, and intimacy. Arya will give you helpful hints and conversation starters to have open conversations with your partner.

My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?

It's super normal for you and your partner to have different desires! Arya will help you create a space where you both feel comfortable talking about your desires. If you partner likes something you're not into (or vice versa); we'll help you find a way to explore them in ways that benefit both of you.

Do I get to choose my box items each month?

Nope, your Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. They've selected premium products to elevate your Scene experience.

Is Arya going to send me tons of sex toys every month?

Yes and no. This depends on what you consider a sex toy. You'll receive items that are hand-selected to enhance your play. This can range from vibrators to lubes, to impact toys or devices you've never even thought of buying. Each Arya Box will have the exact products you need to experiene your monthly Scene together.

Am I too old to benefit from Arya?

You're never too old for great sex! Couples of all age ranges love using Arya.

We've been together for so long, what can we possible gain from Arya?

Sexual adventure! 1 out of 4 people who join Arya are looking for ways to make sex more adventerous. The best way to spice up your bedroom is by exploring novel sexual experiences and Arya is here to give you a boost in your sensual exploration.

I have an injury or illness that impacts my sex life, can I still enjoy Arya?

Chronic discomfort or pain during sex doesn't stop Arya couples from finding pleasure in new sides of eroticism. While we're big fans of the main event, an Arya Scene is designed to give you sexual experiences to explore without relying solely on penetration.

Ready to play?

Start with the quiz and gain a fresh perspective on your sexual connection with yourself and your partner.